haath uthana..

domestic violence..two words that have become very popular in my college campus because of the recent Chris Brown Rihaana case. fight, hit, and run..i dont get it..how is it that possible, i mean doesnt he come from a civilized society, does he not have a brain..its pathetic.. i mean he is such a great dancer... he is so talented..and then what you do at home..beat up your girlfriend..i cant talk about the situation here, as i havent been in or close to anything like that. i do know men have a room size ego, but a roomsize ego does not have control on your thinking when it comes to a loved one.. i have always felt.. when it comes to love, its all about a special person..who has a special place in your heart..in your brain..in your life...in your car...everywhere... how can you negate all those dimensions and do something like that.. one explanation...those people dont know what they are doing... girl thinks its love...guy think its love.. both are deprived of it..hence..lets do.. "it feels like it"... stop...think...GO..why do you have to rush into something that could be the decision of you life.. yet again..im still talking about the US..as here getting divorced is not a big deal..one argument..one distinct opinion..and you quit.. but..back in India..why does it happen there..although i must admit.. i havent seen it much there either...but i know..it does happen..mostly in the not-so-well-off families..why..because they still think of women as the weaker sex...do you "house work"..stay within your limits..shut up when i tell you to..and take care of the kids.. "oh nothing should happen to the kids"...they are "your" responsibility.. i work outside for "you".. "you" should in return treat me like a king..obey my order...oh my god..i think im angry..alright 10...9....8...7...6...5...4...3...2...1...deep breath inhale.. deep breath out.. kheekheekheekhee....its pretty sad that all i can do now..is write some words on it..and frankly speaking..i dont have the guts to go out and take on this issues..because i dont know the other side.. i dont know why that women stays there.. i dont know how she gets up the next morning and resume her "services"... i salute them.. i have always felt women are stronger than men..and i know this because i have a very special friend who helps me out with all my decisions..completing the picture..putting the pieces together..its hard also..because in India..the society too blames the "lady" for a "bad family"...and the issues is usual considered very personal and hush hush... cowards..if they can gossip about it with their neighbours why can they be of some use to the society and speak to the person who really needs "a talk"..i know its no use saying it here..but for all you "educated" men out there...BE A MAN... you want to fight it out..give me a shout..i wont fight you.. i will make you realize what a women could do when she takes it to her ego..and what the hell..if that isnt enough for you.. i will fight ! jai shri ram