watching hum tumhare hai sanam

watching hum tumhare hai sanam.... hahaha... nice movie... i like it when srk does this frustrated guy act, he does it real well.. and about the movie..a very nice plot, although i ha vent heard anything like this happening in real,but the basic story is something i have seen in many couple's life. when i say couple, i mean people who have been involved with each other since long or are @love with each other.. hahahaha.. i likes... anyways.. the funda of movie is when people go from one level in life to the other, but fail to realize that this promotion needs to be implemented in all forms, when you go from one stage of life to the other there is a strong need to graduate as a whole unit, its not just one part of you that goes through this whole change, one should adapt and change everything your feeling your mentality your attitude towards things, just everything. trouble is when even a tiny part of you does not change to the new level, that one little part will make you feel so terrible and things around you will look so strange, making everything look wrong.the problem stated in the movie is when after marriage both salman and madhuri's character fail to graduate to the level of married life, they should know thats things are different now. anyways its just a movie, so things eventually fall in place.according to me, there are two levels in friendship, the friends and the girl friend.. hehe.. seriously speaking there is no point in having a very good friend, coz that is when things go wrong. i don't know what to write more because this concept of "me and him/her" are good friends is just not edible to me. but anyways.. the movie is nice, i like it, and srk is good, he's done the same kind of role in chalte chalte, a different but nice plot there too, i would really like to write about madhuri's character in the movie, but i fear i would sound like a male chauvinist.don't want no trouble. jai shri ram

KISS again..

Keep It Simple Stupid people just dont get it, no they dont, got a call this morning, a cousin of mine, talking about this long time breakup that he had and now that its all over, he cant digest it.so strange that a simple cheez uske bheje main nahi ghuss rahi.. that they are done. i mean, is keeping things simple so tough?? i dont think so, and that is what i told him.to get his mind out of it and concentrate on better things in life. easier said than done but still i hope he gets over it asap, because i see its taking a lot out of him.also, the funny part.. what were they doing all this time?? family planning... hahahaha... 7 years in a relationship and the 7th year you figure out... hehehe.. that its not working... sab moh maya hai... jai shri ram

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i just remembered, i never wrote about my topic, ok, let me think.the logic behind marrying somebody who loves you, well, she wont leave you... will make you good food...will care about you...and will be in love with you..and eventually after these series of events, you'l fall in love with her, and life goes on with pappu and munnni... but its kinda monotonous, i mean c'mon, no fights..what ever you say she/he says yes.. i think all couples should fight.. i mean no big fight.. but at least and argument.. and what the hell.. a big fight too,. these fights test the strength of the relationship that they share, small or big.. if you solve the dispute, then you people are the greatest.alright now the other side.. now this is like the big daddy of confusion, what if you love somebody and that somebody loves another somebody.. and a somebody loves you... who do u end up with?? going by the topic, i should marry the somebody who's in love with me, but then what about the somebody im in love with shouldn't she marry me, and if that hypothetically happens, then what about the other somebody, that somebody is in love with.inki pinki ponki.. father had a donkey... problem.. solved... wow, writing about these things make me sound like encarta(love edition)hahahahahaha,but i like it, i like it because what ever i see and feel adds up to my character and grr..my thinking matures day by day.. feels good.. aiila.. feels good... is this love?? with whom?? inki pinki ponki.. father had a donkey... hehehehe jai shri ram

always marry somebody who loves you.. not the one you love..

hehehe.. sitting on continental airlines i wonder if statements like these are really true and to be followed by the people around.marriage according to me has always been the biggest decision anybody makes in his/her life, because marriage actually defines a very big chunk of that individuals life. but yet, some people make wrong decisions, very wrong decisions.i often think about asking people as to how does one know if the person sitting with him/her during the marriage ceremony is the right one.although i haven't asked people about it, but i know the know it all answer that i usually get as a reply " you'll know it", what the hell... i knew it.. and i proposed my love to that girl and she said no.so now what, I'm not going to get married ? never gonna fall in love again, this whole episode is so very confusing, i don't even know if I'm in love with her now... people.. i thought this was the "you'll know" but it isn't. interesting.. isn't it.. alright, lets flip it, ok if she said yes, well... was i in love then? i might have been. you know, we could do all those couple kind of things, holding hands, talking for hours, planning the future and well, i guess that could feel like love to me.. or is it that in the latter case, all i would be doing is responding to love. so i have a new issue to think about, is responding to love..love??alright, let me think, well.. lets start with positive things, yes it would have been love, why? because the only reply to love is love.. umm.. i mean, obviously there is hate, but when you really want it to happen, then obviously you'l love the other person. hmm, thats pretty clear in my mind now.the negative part, well responding to love as it happens, could be really monotonous if you are not putting your heart and sole in it, you know, would end up being more of a copy cat, you do i do.. then you do again.. then i do again..vicious circle.. how to get out of it... well.. hate !! ..oh my god, this is getting confusing again.i need a fresh start, but then again, how would i know if im in love, sheeks man, hats off to all those people who have these long affairs and end up marrying each other, how do you do it??anyways, i guess its confession time, no bete deepu, you dont have it in you..let me get back to the in flight entertainment, idiots have movies like "i see you" abey i don't see anything.but then again, not for me.. just not for me

jai shri ram