love storeys

long time no gyaan about the love stories... but nea.. not the regular stuff, as the name suggests.. its more about the "storeys" and how one..actually the pair climbs up the ladder.. why i use storeys here.. well..well..there is a reason, but i would rather not put it here..but lets just say its something thats happening around me..so.. storeys..before i start with it.. i must say, its not just about the relationship growing, couple do that all the time.. they graduate.. they evolve.. but this is more of a step that takes you higher or lower on the ladder.. im not sure if the ladder here...is life.. or their relationship.. i would prefer saying its life.. because relationship thing would fall into the "graduate" category.. anyways.. so from the beginning.. people meet..greet..talk..chat..lunches...dinners..breakfasts.. yes..in the same order..we do all this and more..but when do you exactly know if you have together taken the step up..i would not use "you"..how does the couple know if they have taken a step up or down.. is it always about the husband getting flowers for the wife.. or is it about the wife taking that extra care of the husband..i have often heard them say "he/she has changed a lot since then".. i think this phrase pretty much talks about one half of the picture..and hence..yet again fails to qualify as "a step" in the ladder. i will not talk about step down here.. because i feel its pretty obvious to know that. anyways, back to the the ladder..according to me... the best way to find if the couple is up the ladder is to ask the people around..i mean obviously, if you are the couple you wont go around and ask, but just observe if the people around you are the same with you like they were a year ago. it seems like too much homework, but believe me, its not, just make sure you are sincere to yourself and do have the correct tools to determine if the change is because of "us" or "them".90% of the things that blog about here takes a backseat when you really are in a situation like that, but i feel it still affects the action that you take then, maybe 10 years from now i wont be talking to my wife about ladders and if we are going up or down, but im sure there will be a certain parameter to measure our performance.."our" performance... not mine..and that would probably give us out the final verdict. जय श्री राम ।

exciting things

• new toothpaste flavour
• new wiper in my car
• different inside
• surprise rain
• games which i am bad at
• organizing things
• creativity with home furniture
• old groovy songs
• first sight of something really dirty that i just cleaned..before and after affect
• new cricket ads during world cup
• intelligent ads
• countdowns
• sand
• a good lady driver
• WIFI connection at a strange place
• electronics with great battery life
• being the first one at a traffic signal
• girl in green(pastel colors)
• rocky
• baggage claim
• power adapters with light indicator
• meaning of a person's name
• ceiling fan regulator
• free flowing bathroom shower
• washing hands after cutting nails
• cutting paneer and tomatos
• soap bubbles
• webcams
• squeaky sound while brushing my teeth
• sparkling knife
• all green signals while driving back home
• deleting browsing history/starting with a fresh browser window with no url suggest

जय श्री राम

यहाँ मन्ना है

सीधी सीधी बात है॥ आज यह हम हिन्दी मैं इसलिए लिख रहे हैं क्युकी जो हिन्दी नही जानता उसको शायद यह पढने की ज़रूरत भी नही है। यह है हमारे देश और देश वासियों के बारे मैं॥ आज इस लेख के द्वारा मैं उन् चीज़ों को सामने लाना चाहता हूँ जिनके बारे मैं हम सोचते तोह हैं॥ लेकिन कुछ ख़ास करते नही हैं॥ शुरू करते हैं लेके प्रभु का नाम॥ तोह आपने आज तक कितने कानून तोडे हैं... कितने ही " यहां मन्ना हैं" वाले नियमों को तोडा है॥ यहां गाड़ी अन्दर लाना मन है॥ लिफ्ट मैं भारी समान लाना मन है॥ यहां शोर मचाना मन है ॥ और कई सारे ऐसे नीयम हैं जिनको मैंने तोह कई बार तोडा है॥ बिना उनके परिणाम का ख़याल किए है॥ और आज जब मैं उनके बारे मैं सोचता हूँ तोह एक ही चीज़ मेरे दिमाग मैं खनकती है॥ मैंने इतना सब इसलिए किया क्युकी मैं उस समय वोह करना चाहता था ॥ या इसलिए किया क्युकी वहां वोह करना मन्ना था ॥ क्यूँ उस समय मैं गाड़ी थोडी आगे नही लगा सकता था ॥ क्यूँ उस समय मैं ५ मिनुतों के लिए चुप्प नही बैठ सकता था .मुझे किस्सी और से कुछ लेना देना नही है॥ मैंने यहां सिर्फ़ अपने बारे मैं लिखता हूँ॥ क्युकी मैं सिर्फ़ अपने ही बारे मैं जानता हूँ , और आज मुझे शर्म आती है की इतना कुछ करने के बाद भी मैं आज सिर्फ़ उसके बारे मैं लिख सकता हूँ । इस बार देश जाके मैं कोशिश करूंगा एक जिम्मेदार भारतीये बन्ने का , बहुत हो गया बच्चों का खेल तमाशा॥ अगर मैं एक दिन भी नियम्मों का पालन कर पाया तोह मैं सम्घोओंगा की मैंने आज अपने देश के लिए कुछ किया है। भारत माता की जय। जय श्री राम॥

giving gyaan

long time no blog.. and believe me when i say.. long time no gyaan..actually havent had the time to think about things other than whats really happening now..this topic of me and my compulsive behaviour of giving gyaan is pretty old and outdated..i mean i do know i have been doing it since a long time..and i do realize now that much of it is of no use to most of the people on the receiving end...lesson learnt..and the forward motion continues with another parameter .. rather a filter on my gyaan output... a checklist...which should be run before the gyaan session begins..other than the obvious time and medium points in it..there is the need and the level of gyaan which are now added...the obvious "step down sir/maam" request to the receiver..and the "let us fight without raising our voices"...but today i wonder if i am loosing it.. simple issues do not interest me any more..atleast not the childish ones..i sit in my office doing what i am suppose to...not caring to laugh at a joke cracked on me by my colleagues..ignoring the behavior of being polite..it just does not interest me any more.. i am not going to encourage you being stupid about something i have no interest in..i have better things in life to think about..i dont have to concentrate on the love affair going on between a 30 yr old guy and a 20 year old girl..why cant people just digest it and move on..why are we so helpful when it comes to a randomly generated problem between a guy and a girl..i should convince.. i am no super human... i was a part of the same crowd..but the word here is WAS.. am not.. i have changed... i believe in not wasting time on things that are not in my control..but today..i just wished the people around me would be more mature...people who would open their eyes and see green as green... this post is to make me realize that i might have stopped barking up the wrong tree..but there are people out there doing it with pride and there is nothing i can do about it... its nice... i am happy i wrote about it.. its been long since i spoke to anybody about office..im happy today...baba is here..and its nice to see him have a nice time..i am also happy about the newly installed filter in my gyaan pipe... il make it a point to keep a check on the output..but like i said..i have observed.. gyaan output...this month has been null..i dont really know if i should be proud of it..but quite frankly..its a very neutral feeling..on the other hand..i think now i have lost the ability of being a part of a conversation i have no interest in.. i should bring it back.. atleast the "nod of head" part..believe me..its very important...especially when they talk about you ;-).

bad things that are good

i dont remember but i might have already written something about this in my past posts... pasts post.. ha ha.. like using words like that...bad blog..eh eh.. great girl... anyways...so here im talking about bad things that actually turn out to be good for me.. yet again.. this thought came to my mind when i was driving back from work the other day.. my car..which is actually a minivan..is a decent car..i can go upto 75 miles/hr on it..and it stays in ok state then..anything more than that..is bad for the car..and for me..so when i am on my not-so-usual-anymore ego driving.. i am happy that i dont have a car that can really take the situation out of my hands..although.. like i have said.. i am very proud of my driving skills..and try to improve it every now and then.. nevertheless.. i enjoy driving.. this makes me think about the other things that are ..well.. i dont like using bad.. but.. that are not good in general..but is good for me..more like has a positive white streak in the black picture..this thought has actually helped me in taking things as it comes..and being positive about what ever i encounter..another example that runs through my mind..is when i came here.. was studying and looking desperately for a job..i got an offer to become a technical recruiter then..they were giving me salary+perks+free accommodation..i turned it down.. because it was a cash job..at that time i did not want to take chances by doing something illegal..and..for the rest of that week..i felt terrible for not using an opportunity that literally knocked on my door..but then..jai shri ram.. i heard the knock again..and this time it was OIT..the office of information technology..where i work now..and where i enjoy to work..they pay my tuition..they give me a decent salary..and ahem ahem..they are offering me a job now..shhhhhhhh.. do not tell anybody..anyways.. the bad thing here..was my ego of not working for a company that i could not put on my resume..i dont know if this example really justifies my point here..but there was something wrong..something that stopped me from taking it up..ah.. the bed that i sleep on...for the past 6 months.. i have slept on a concave bed..eh eh eh...one of the legs of the futon broke..and the mattress sunk from the middle..i used to manage by sleeping on the sides...a bad thing right.. bad for my back to sleep like that..but then..earlier this month..when we finally decided to move to another place..i decided to buy a new bed..anybody who has lived here knows how expensive a bed...rather the mattress is..then words of wisdom from my landlord..home depot to the rescue..but a wooden plank..and just screw 4 legs to it..tada..a nice flat bed..from concave to flat...feels nice..i dont use a mattress anymore.. i just dont need it.. i like it the way it is..its very good for your back you see...i just bought two more legs for the plank..its stays more stable that way..like i have said in my previous posts..it is always good to write these posts when you think of them...but then..its not always possible..im sure i had more examples to elaborate my point..but then i guess..the car sums it up well..bad things that are good..im happy that i finally have the ability to find the positive streak in everything that comes my way... जय श्री राम ॥